Forgive – its up to you to be the adult. Learn this lesson from your kids. Forgive others for somethng that has been done against you. It is the best lesson that you can give.
Give – Show your kids what it means to give something back to your community. Set aside some of your income to allow plenty of opportunities to demonstrate to your kids. Sponsor a child, support a charity, give to your church.
Humility – your kids will be able to know if you have any pride. The best way to deal with this is to be a humble person. Be prepared to say that I was wrong. It will not diminish your stature with the kids in fact the opposite will be true.
My Bob (AKA Toby). One of the people who helps me to forgive, encourages me to give and always keeps me humble